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Pregnancy: A not so magical experience

by Noluthando Ngcakani
5th May 2022
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Pregnancy: A not so magical experience

"The Cape Midwife", Natasha Stadler joins Sisters Without Shame this week to unpack the not-so-magical pregnancy phenomenon. Photo: Supplied/Health For Mzansi

On this episode of Sisters Without Shame, a future mom in crisis wonders if she is a bad mom for hating the “magical pregnancy experience”. “The Cape Midwife” Natasha Stadler, comes to her rescue and says that there are no universal rules for pregnancy.

Sure – there are no other organisms that grow up so fast and in such a complex way as a foetus – but everyone has the right to experience this phenomenon differently.

On episode 40 of Sisters Without Shame Cape Midwife Natasha Stadler unpacks childbirth. Photo: Supplied/Health For Mzansi

“Pregnancy is a huge change in a woman’s life,” Stadler says. “We are taught that pregnancy is this amazing time, and everybody should be ecstatic and happy because of all these beautiful ads and these radiant wonderful pregnant women. We feel really bad and we do not really like to talk about it. It also means that we do not get the support that we need. I think that it is more common than we see, but I do think we need to know that there is a space for us [to be vulnerable].”

Stadler is a midwife with her own practice in Somerset West and has garnered over 30 years of experience in midwifery.

What midwives have to do with pregnancy?

Midwifery is one of the oldest professions in existence. According to Dartmouth University, you can think of a midwife as a “birthing assistant”. Stadler agrees and says that midwives function in a variety of roles related to women’s health.

These include and are not limited to, check-ups, the education of women on prenatal care and nutrition, providing birth education classes, and assisting women with breastfeeding and infant care.

“We are medically trained and qualified to keep an eye on firstly the normal pregnancy and to see that everything is going well, if the baby is growing, to help the mother realise what it is that she needs, and we are obviously medically trained to deliver babies.”

Stadler adds: “We have the medical background and knowledge to be able to assist mothers in the birth process and assist them when sometimes things do not go the way we would like them to.”

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If a mother is iron deficient during pregnancy and does not receive an iron replacement, it poses huge neurological and cognitive development risks for the baby post‑birth. Photo: Supplied/Health For Mzansi

Take a chill pill sweetie

Stadler says that it is normal for women to be stressed during their pregnancy. “I don’t think women have had as high expectations of themselves as what they have now,” she says.

“They [moms] know so much, they are trying to live as to not disturb the baby in the womb … it is a very difficult thing to do [bring life into the world] and it is okay to not do it perfectly. It is okay to forget to take the supplements, it is okay to eat sushi once in a blue moon if you want to…we [midwives] are there to guide moms.”

Should you be taking pain relief during labour?

There is a lot to think about when you are expecting. And a major one is what the labour will be like and how you will handle the pain. Every mommy is different, Stadler says.“There is ample scientific research that your pain level increases through fear.

“Fear is a huge concept in pain. Unfortunately in the South African ‘birth world’, there is a lot of fear just because it is not easy for women to get good support. Just by eliminating fear, you are already bringing a woman some sort of pain relief.”

Your body, your rules. “You have to relearn to trust your body and you have to relearn to trust yourself … it is such an abstract place, nobody can imagine what it is like to deliver a baby.”

Listen to the full interview on Sisters Without Shame 

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Want to connect with Sisters Without shame? 

To send an SOS to Sisters Without Shame, email hello@healthformzansi. Alternatively, send a WhatsApp to 076 132 0454.

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Noluthando Ngcakani

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