Yearning For My Love from Nelspruit in Mpumalanga writes…
My Dearest Yearning lover boy …
The absence of touch should surely make the heart grow fonder. And that sense of yearning should be the spark for your sexy flame. Use it to your advantage, babes.
If anything, this situation should be used to explore intimacy beyond sexuality. So, your imagination is the key here, delve into it.
Play, get wild and dig deep into your kinks. And when I say kinks I don’t mean bound, gagged or strapped. No, sweetie, I mean to explore the kinks of the mind.
The power of language is an unstoppable force in sexual gratification and lucky for us we have the technology to help us too.
There are multitudes of adjectives that can describe certain bits and pieces, you can push the limits you know. We can get physical in so many ways that do not require us to be in the same room.
Send risqué voice notes at random times during the day. Tease her mind with images or even short little five-second videos.
Remember, you respectively are in charge of your separate environments. Set up some ambience for those virtual dates that you think will set your lover off. Leave a little room for some mystery and keep enjoying each other by teasing each other with imagery of what to expect when you are reunited again.
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Liewe Lulu is Health For Mzansi’s agony aunty. The content in this article is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical and/or psychological advice, diagnosis or treatment. Always seek the advice of a qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding any medical condition.